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Re: Fun stuff to psychoanalyze... (is that one word?)
Posted By: Darien, on host 207.10.37.2
Date: Tuesday, November 9, 1999, at 19:33:50
In Reply To: Fun stuff to psychoanalyze... (is that one word?) posted by Minamoon on Tuesday, November 9, 1999, at 19:24:59:

> Okay. I am having difficulties.
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> Ever have one of those months where it feels like all of your friends are going to blow up and kill each other? Well, all of them execpt for Darien and me, anyway...
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> My roommate is a dork. She likes to not go to class (ever!) and then get all mad at me when I ask her why she's not going. And she also likes to tell *everyone* on campus anything I tell her in confidence. She also likes to complain constantly about how she can't stand Darien, which really gets on my nerves.
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> Then, she goes around complaining that I never talk to her anymore and I'm never around and stuff. Well, I guess compared to one who never leaves her room, I'm not around a whole lot. And now mutual friends are telling me I'd better do something to work out our friendship or bad stuff will happen.
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> Thing is, she hasn't said a single thing to me about anything being *wrong.* Am I justified in being a bit puzzled by all this?

-Addendum: My observations on the situation.-

From what I've seen of this, all this nonsense started exactly (not roughly, but *exactly,* to the day) when Minamoon told her roommate that she was in love with me. Spontaneously, her roommate started to hate me and started saying lots of... less-than-flattering things about me to all kinds of people. I don't know what her problem is, but she seems to feel that it is her God-given duty to split us up or destroy all of our friendships if she can't. She has a habit lately of calling *my* roommate at whatever hour of the night and telling him all kinds of bad things that I've supposedly been saying about him.

The worst part of it all is that she thinks she's being very subtle and sneaky, when in fact she is being brazen and obnoxious. And she has the gall to get all upset about Minamoon telling me "secrets" (in parentheses because they are also brazen and obnoxious) even after spreading I don't know how much stuff about us around the entire campus. Is there any way to resolve this situation that is not *technically* a felony?

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