> Exactly. If you (general you, not specific you) try to wait until you're prepared for everything before you do anything, you never do anything. Sometimes you just have to get to a point where you're as prepared as you can reasonably expect to be, then take the plunge.

As another Rinkie who's been through this already, I can attest that Sam is absolutely correct. (What a surprise, huh?) Marriage *is* a scary thing, if you're considering it from the perspective that this is something you'll be working at for the rest of your life. You can't just jump into it without thinking. Of course, you also can't sit around waiting for a Sign From God before you make a decision. But I'm just repeating what Sam said. Anyway, you sound like you've got a pretty good head on your shoulders, so I think you'll do alright. :-}

~Mina "And remember, RinkWeddings are AWESOME" moon