> Brunnen-"will be very interested to see whether the replies divide along gender lines"G

I'm definitely a #1 person. As much as I'd like to be a #2 person, in the long run I fall back to #1.

One of my strong personality traits is that I have to think something is *really* good to say that it's good. This is not a quality I like about myself. I find it very hard to give compliments and words of encouragement.

To be able to say "I love you" (which in Norwegian is quite a bit stronger than in English), I really have to feel a strong feeling thereof. But when that moment comes, I make sure I say it. And those moments can come at the oddest times and places.

I might change if I met the right person, though. So far I've only been in one serious relationship, and that had its peculiarities...

Travholt.