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Re: Names
Posted By: eric sleator, on host 24.21.13.118
Date: Monday, January 15, 2001, at 12:02:46
In Reply To: Re: Names posted by Ellmyruh on Friday, January 12, 2001, at 10:42:58:

> > > > Don "The Monkey'doesn't feel like typing his name at the end of his messages. Needs a shorter name.'man" Jackson
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> > > You could just start calling yourself "Monkeyman" like you do in chat. We know who you are.
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> > > Gri"or how about just 'Monkey?' Or maybe you could even shorten it to 'Monk'"shny
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> > Heh. "Monk" appeals to me for some reason...
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> > I would do that, but I read somewhere that one sign of successful online communities is the use of real names within them, and I like that idea... I also like to put a little of my real self into the things I say online. Unfortunately, just using "Don" went out when Don Thornton posted here (confusion is bad). I am thinking of just using "Don Jackson", but I would rather have the lighthearted part of myself here as well... I'll keep thinking on it.
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> > Don "Wouldn't fit in well in a monastery" Monkey
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> I find it interesting that you are trying to figure out what 'name' to use. This morning, for the first time, I actually registered my real name for RinkChat and tried it out. It looked so foreign and strange that I quickly logged out and came back in as Ellmyruh. I have come to think of myself as Ellmyruh when I am in RinkLand, and anything else seems strange. However, nicknames of Ellmyruh, such as Ellie, Elly, Elli, Ell, etc, do not bother me at all. I like Ellmyruh and any abbreviations of it. The only thing I ever regretted about my real name was that it doesn't have a nickname.
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> The only thing that is a middle-of-the-road approach is the nickname Darien usually uses on me. "L" sounds like "Ell" (short for Ellmyruh), but is also the first letter of my real name. I'm not sure why I am perfectly comfortable with L, but not with seeing my full name taken out of context, in a way. Similarly, I was taken aback when someone from school responded to an email and called me "Ellmyruh" in it. In a way, that was out of context, too. People who do not know my non-online world do not know or think of me as Ellmyruh.
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> I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but I suppose I am merely thinking out loud. If I could, I would probably rather use my real name in chat and on the message forum. However, I am too fond of Ellmyruh, I, along with everyone else here, have grown accustomed to it, and I tremble over the idea of people shortening Layla to "Lay."
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> Ell"Layla B"myruh

And then it'd take some adjusting for us. I'm still not able to call Kiki anything but Kiki. If I met everyone here out in Corporeal Land I'd probably still call them all by their RinkWorks names. It would just be too weird saying Layla or Lynette or Brandon or Heidi. I'd recognize who you'd be, Ellmyruh, if you changed to your real name in chat, but it'd be a bit odd for a while, and I'd probably have two separate mental images of you like I did for Kiki back when she was both Kiki and unipeg. Name changes sure can be odd to go through.

-eric "is just beginning to realize, as he writes this post, what he put people through with his six or seven name changes over the past couple years" sleator
Mon 15 Jan A.D. 2001